add backend matrix testing reminder + full CI matrix
- CLAUDE.md: add "before pushing new features" section requiring
full backend matrix tests (sqlite/postgres + memory/redis)
- CI: test all backend combinations via Nix packages:
- sqlite + memory broker (via test scripts)
- sqlite + redis broker (native redis-server)
- postgres + memory broker (native postgres via initdb)
- uses postgres and redis from nixpkgs, no Docker needed
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